Sự hối hận của một người đẹp xăm mình

Câu chuyện của Lee có thể khiến người ta phải cân nhắc trước khi xăm.

 

Lee, 31 tuổi, từng thành danh trong cuộc thi thần tượng ở Singapore, sở hữu tới 33 hình xăm khắp người. Cô xăm mình từ năm 16 tuổi và liên tục bổ sung hình xăm mới cho tới khi 25 tuổi.

Nó là một tuyên ngôn nổi loạn. Tôi không muốn ép mình vào chuẩn mực của xã hội trong quá khứ. Vì vậy, tôi sử dụng cơ thể để thể hiện quan điểm sống của mình” – Cô giãi bày.

Tuy nhiên, sau nhiều năm sống chung cùng những hình xăm, đã đến lúc Lee cảm thấy phải rời xa chúng. Cô đã không thể kháng cự lại được sự kỳ thị của xã hội, dù là ở một đất nước nổi tiếng văn minh như Singapore.

Lee nói rằng cô quyết định xóa hình xăm khỏi cơ thể bởi những người xung quanh thường phán xét tư cách đạo đức của cô dựa vào hình xăm.

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Hình xăm của Lee là cách để cô bày tỏ sự phản kháng với thế giới xung quanh

Ngoài ra, Lee cũng quyết định rời bỏ thú xăm mình vì lý do, cô đang bước sang giai đoạn mới của cuộc đời. Nữ ca sĩ này định theo Thiên Chúa giáo.

Hình xăm đem lại khá nhiều phiền phức cho Lee. Cô thường xuyên nhận được những cái lắc đầu từ chối khi đi xin việc hoặc khi đăng ký vào các dự án giải trí. Không chỉ thế, cô còn bị người xung quanh xa lánh.

Ai cũng có xu hướng đánh giá người khác ngay từ ấn tượng đầu tiên. Ngay cả tôi, người có đầy hình xăm cũng vẫn có ấn tượng không mấy tốt đẹp về những người có hình xăm”. – Lee tiết lộ một phản ứng tâm lý gây bất ngờ của chính mình.

Từ năm 2011, Lee đã phải thực hiện tới 20 ca xóa hình xăm. Nếu như xăm hình rẻ và đơn giản bao nhiêu thì xóa xăm lại phức tạp, đắt đỏ và đau đớn bấy nhiêu.

Mỗi một lần xoát xăm tiêu tốn của cô từ 400 – 1000 đô la (khoảng 8 – 22 triệu đồng) tùy theo độ lớn của hình xăm.

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Mỗi lần xóa xăm tiêu tốn của cô 400 -1000 đô la

Tiền không phải vấn đề duy nhất khi xóa hình xăm mà đau đớn mới thực sự là nỗi ám ảnh đối với Lee. Cô có một hình xăm gần kín lưng và một hình gần kín tay.

Ban đầu, Lee xóa những hình xăm nhỏ trước để cơ thể quen với đau đớn. Tuy nhiên, càng ngày các vết thương tạo ra trong quá trình xóa xăm càng trở nên tệ và đau hơn nhiều.

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Mỗi lần trị liệu xóa hình xăm, Lee đều chịu nhiều đau đớn

Lee mô tả các cơn đau đó như thể một cú nổ bom trên da hoặc như nướng thịt. Trải nghiệm đó sợ hãi tới mức cô thường run lẩy bẩy trước khi tia laser đốt lên người.

Có lúc, khi tia laser xóa xăm chiếu lên da, Lee đã khóc òa, thậm chí xỉu đi vì quá đau dù đã có thuốc gây tê.

Cha mẹ, bạn bè và người thân của Lee hết lòng ủng hộ cô xóa hình xăm. Tuy nhiên cộng đồng những người thích xăm mình ở Singapore thì coi Lee như một kẻ phản bội.

Mặc dù bị cộng đồng xăm mình hết lời sỉ vả nhưng Lee vẫn cho quyết định của mình là đúng đắn. Cô đã đưa câu chuyện xóa hình xăm tốn kém và kinh hoàng lên trang blog cá nhân. Lee nghĩ trường hợp của mình sẽ khiến mọi người cân nhắc kỹ trước khi quyết định xăm mình.

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Cô bị cộng đồng xăm mình chỉ trích

Lee dừng loạt trị liệu xóa hình xăm vào năm 2012 bởi cô sợ tác dụng phụ của laser tới thai nhi. Cơ thể của Lee vẫn chằng chịt sẹo và mờ mờ dấu tích hình xăm cũ.

Khi được hỏi liệu có chấp nhận cho con mình xăm hình, Lee đã thẳng thắn cho biết: “Nếu nó có ý định xăm thì tốt nhất nên làm ở nơi nào khuất mắt tôi. Bởi nếu để tôi nhìn thấy, sẽ ngay lập tức lôi nó tới thẩm mỹ viện để xóa xăm”.

Bác sĩ Elias Tham, người thực hiện trị liệu cho Lee chia sẻ rằng với kinh nghiệm 16 năm làm trong lĩnh vực thâm mỹ, ông gặp rất nhiều người giống như Lee, xóa xăm để làm lại cuộc đời. Không ít người trong số này xăm mình và hối tiếc vì đã làm như vậy cho tới khi họ già.

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Lee đang dần dần tìm cách bỏ những hình xăm ra khỏi cơ thể

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